Insight into consciousness...

I had a client who wanted to talk to me about deciding whether she was getting a divorce or not. She wasn't sure if she could still trust her husband. There had already been trust issues during the 7-year marriage. She had always suspected that her husband was lying to her while she intuitively sensed that there was something she could not pinpoint.

I told her through email consulting that people, including partners act from a certain level of consciousness. From the emails I could read that they were mirroring each other. This meant that her weaknesses were his strengths, and vice versa. She hadn't looked at it that way, she told me later.

I explained that I could measure her and his consciousness from a distance and what that meant. She had a consciousness level of 350. On the scale of consciousness, 260 is neutral. Neutral means that a person has confidence in the environment around him or her, that there is purpose, but not really focus. That there is a kind of satisfaction across the board. 350, on the other hand, is the awareness of acceptance (310 is willingness). With acceptance you come to forgiveness, insights and a knowing of harmony. You then have a certain passion, productivity and happiness is at a good level, good energy is flowing. You are in the flow of everything around you.

When I measured her partner, I arrived at 100. The number one hundred indicates that one acts out of fear. You then look fearfully at life and tend to keep looking back. The key to getting higher in consciousness is to overcome those fears. You then tend to turn to narcotics such as alcohol drugs, medication or cigarettes. Which was partly true from what I could read in her emails.

The difference between 100 and 350 in level of consciousness is too great. It cannot work together. I know that from experience. Then I explained to her that there were two options. Either it was clear to her that the relationship was done, and there was no point in continuing (provided there were no more feelings with her), or that he could follow a path with me to address those fears.

She then eventually encouraged him to do something about it. After a course of 5 weeks of email consultations with a weekly online video session, he was able to turn several fears into more positive thoughts. We were able to identify the cause of his fears, and we did a kind of Re-Imprinting.